The fact that women decide who can have sex and who can reproduce has very far-reaching consequences. Deep down, men know that if they lose this power, if women themselves gain control over their sexuality, women will be overpowering them. Men are prepared to do almost anything to get sex. The Western man would even rather give up his manhood than risk losing the favour of women.
That’s how Swedish men become nice wimps, “svennar,” not real men. Male qualities such as courage, honour, self-confidence and self-discipline are lost. Our leaders can’t defend our Western culture because they don’t know how to behave as men. They have lost their masculinity. They do not dare to fight back.
Swedish boys are cowards, as many immigrant boys learn at school. Men from Africa and the Middle East countries only respect strong men, not strong women. They see women as weak. Men who behave like women are also weak. Then you can do what you want.
As the quick-witted actress Mae West once put it: “When women get stray, men follow in their tracks.”
Women have their biological radar set on men who can protect them and their children. Aggression and masculine charisma are qualities that attract women. For nice guys who go out of their way to please women, it can be hard to digest that women so often fall for men who will make them miserable.
The fact that women do not think the same way as men when choosing a partner is shown, for example, by what a seventeen-year-old girl wrote in Expressen, after a major highway robbery:
Another reason for stealing cars and robbing old ladies is to get what you want. I’m not referring to things you can buy in stores. I’m talking about getting the most attractive girls and getting respect from the most influential guys. I don’t know how it is in the rest of Sweden, but where I live I know that there are few girls who are really looking for the Big Love. Another word that explains them is: Golddiggers. Who would say no to the guy in the new Porsche? Who would say no to the guy in the new villa? Who would say no to a date in the most expensive restaurant? Well, when you’re a student, almost completely broke and unemployed, not many people would say no. Especially if the guy in question is ”famous” in the area.
A guy friend of mine had been in love with a girl for almost three years. He was classed as the school nerd and no one even looked his way. You know how the story ends. He chose the criminal path, got filthy rich and could choose anyone he wanted. Including the chick he’d been chasing for so many years. Pathetic, isn’t it?24
I am not suggesting that this is a common and “normal” way for young women to choose partners but am limiting myself to the observation that among women, there is a biologically based attraction to strong men, and that strength can be interpreted in many ways. This does not prevent most people from realising that the best choice is the good-looking young man who is investing in his accountancy studies. But then it is reason and not biology that rules. Like men, women are biologically shaped to live in a bygone society, more brutal and more primitive.
Another example of how women think differently from men is that men in prison often receive love and admiration mail from women they do not know:
Anders Eklund, who murdered ten-year-old Engla in Stjärnsund and Pernilla Hellgren in Falun, was contacted by a mother of two who began visiting him in prison after he was convicted of the murders and placed in prison. Christer Karlsson, President of the Association for the Revenge of Criminals in Society, experienced first-hand the attraction of convicted criminals. He was placed in the forensic psychiatric clinic in Huddinge for an investigation after being convicted of drug and violent crimes. He placed a personal ad with the headline “Prisoner looking for…” He immediately received 50 responses.25
Women’s power is further enhanced by the fact that they are more social and group/consensus oriented than men. Once they begin to gain positions of power, they are backed by their peers. Moreover, as they advance to important positions in politics and to managers in the media, they can influence the flow of information in society. This becomes a self-reinforcing process which, when it has gone as far as it has in Sweden, is almost impossible to stop. In today’s Sweden, women control a large part of both formal and informal power.
The men become insecure. Less than ever, they understand women. In feminist Sweden, the good men don’t really know how to act. But they do know that women are dangerous, that they can turn on them, whether it’s Gudrun Schyman’s heiress on the prowl, or some #MeToo trend sweeping through society.
This does not mean that women “win.” They also lose. Encroaching on men’s territory does not make women happy. It is not power but community and harmonious interaction that makes both women and men happy. Where there is a struggle for power, there is little room for love. We live in a time when the interplay between the sexes is out of kilter. Aristotle’s and Darwin’s idea that human ethics must be based on human nature no longer applies.
Karl-Olov Arnstberg
Sweden Syndrome
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